7 Simple Tips For Cultivating Tons Of Confidence
Confidence without competence is a dangerous combination. Make it easy for yourself and only engage in Self comparison when you are assessing your progress. By doing this you will make it easier to keep at it when the going gets tough and your competence will grow day by day.
1 Spend time each day with confident people.
Their energy and inner strength is so inspiring that you will find yourself feeling more empowered just by listening to them talk.
And you can get tips from them. All you need to do is ask! Even one good idea could point you in a whole new direction you would not have otherwise considered.
2 Find a mentor.
Nearly all successful people have a mentor. You too need someone who has already done what you are working to achieve who is willing to advise you.
This person will help you to succeed even more quickly than you can imagine. Remember, two minds are better than one.
When you have someone who believes in you and you have a plan you believe in -- your confidence will soar.
3 Understand that confidence is only a feeling.
Have you ever felt confident? If you have ever felt confident in any situation then you can feel confident again in the future.
How? By re-accessing that confident feeling. This is something that is worth doing every day. Spend 15 minutes a day reliving occasions in your life when you felt confident. Imagine it all in rich detail and pay very close attention to the feelings of confidence.
After only a few days, feeling confident will become a good habit.
4 List your reasons to be confident
Becoming aware of why you can be confident will help you get back on track. Make a list of at least 50 reasons why you can be confident today. Include previous successes, your skills and qualities, your support network and your goals. Put down everything that pops into your mind.
After you have done this you will have tapped into the power of consistency. You will be under pressure to be consistent with your own logic that stated you can be confident.
5 Make a public declaration
Tell someone whose opinion you value that you will be confident at a particular event. Your desire to impress this person will cause you to do all that you can to be at your very best.
And when you demand more of yourself you will be amazed at what you can do. You will start finding solutions to problems that left you stuck and you will seek advice from people who can help you.
6 Preparation makes perfect
Have you ever watched a top sportsperson in action and wondered to yourself at how easy she makes it look? Or listened to your favorite music CD and felt inspired by the talent of the singer?
Think. How did these superstars get to the top? Practice, practice and more practice. I read an article about Pavarotti, the opera singer, and he said he practices daily and he still learns something new about his voice each day!
When you spend more time honing your skills your confidence will soar because you will know with certainty that you can and will perform when the curtain goes up.
7 Self comparison is key
Compare your progress in life with your previous results. Look to the success of others to learn and not to measure your own success.
When you put your focus on the daily improvement of your own skills and abilities you can and will grow very quickly. And your confidence will surge.
Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm
Latest News
Hormones: Learning the rules of attraction Independent, UK - What really draws couples together? The mysteries of hormones are only now being unravelled – and giving us fascinating new insights into why we behave the ... |
PIRATE: A magnetic attraction to North Carolina's beaches? StarNewsOnline.com, NC - Researchers at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill believe sea turtles use the Earth's magnetic field to find their way back to their birthplace to ... |
![]() TheImproper.com | 'Twilight' stokes our immortal attraction to the vampire New York Daily News, NY - In this image released by Summit Entertainment, Kristen Stewart, left, and Robert Pattinson are shown in a scene from, "Twilight." 'Mad, bad, and dangerous ... Life and love eternal E-mail this page Movie Review - "Twilight" sizzles but squanders dark romance |
Sunoco becomes local attraction with sign, car North Fort Myers Neighbor, FL - By ANDREA GALABINSKI, nfmneighbor@breezenewspapers.com The Sunoco Gas Station at 14531 N. Cleveland Avenue has become a local attraction of sorts. ... |
![]() UK Parents Lounge | New Forest Lapland attraction a dismal failure UK Parents Lounge, UK - Instead of paying high-cost flights to the real Lapland, families could travel to the New Forest to see a similar attraction. With tickets costing £25, ... Santa punched and elves under fire at Lapland attraction Picture diary by mum at Lapland row attraction Theme park branded 'winter blunderland' |
The rules of attraction Independent Online, South Africa - By Roger Dobson A woman's smile may not be all it seems. When her zygomaticus major cheek muscle moves the upper lip upward and outward to produce that warm ... |
Craigie’s now a Main attraction: Harvard Square restaurant moves ... Cambridge Chronicle, MA - By Travis Andersen/Correspondent As word spread that the restaurant offered some of the best French cuisine and ambiance in Cambridge, owner and proprietor ... |
guardian.co.uk | A cosmopolitan attraction Culpeper Star Exponent, VA - Have you seen the new movie now playing in theaters starring Nicole Kidman and Hugh Jackman, called “Australia”? The movie is receiving great reviews and ... Crikey! 'Australia' Hits the Big Screen VIDEO: “Australia” Review 'Australia' -- a review |
My fear and fragility: history of gay attraction AfterEllen.com - I'm not sure who I should address this to, or even how to write this. I know that you don't know me, and you've got no reason to give up your time to read ... |
Attraction hit by lack of visitors Fleetwood Today, UK - One of Kendal's major attractions, the Quaker Tapestry, says it is struggling due to falling visitor numbers. The board of trustees said it is debating ... Kendal tourism action plan revealed Uncertain future for Quaker Tapestry |
Resources
-
WomenFiguredOut.com How To Be The Jerk Women Love by F.J. Shark
eBook that teaches men the sexual triggers and attraction secrets of Jerks w/out being a Jerk.
-
Mental Power Strategies
Master Secrets of Hypnosis, Chi Power ,Meditation, attraction, & Stock Markets.
-
COVERTPOWER.COM - Your source for Seduction, Influence, personal power and money attraction informat
COVERTPOWER.COM - Your source for Seduction, Influence, personal power and money attraction information!
-
Free report reveals how sexy women will approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or
attraction, dating and seduction secrets revealed. This remarkable website teaches men how to get desirable, sexy women to approach them first. Discover little known dating, seduction and pick up secrets from John Alanis, the King of Let
-
Natural attraction & Success with Women: 'Men's Guide to Women'
Learn how to be successful with women. Understand how to get women, be a player, and attract women.
-
Being a Player, Dating, attraction, Seduction And Sex Tips for Men
The Most Amazing Secrets to Get Any Woman That You Want, learn what women want, flirting, love advice, pick up lines, dating tips, speed dating, get a girlfriend, and pick up women
-
The Law of attraction (sm) where you manifest & attract abundance, success & wealth!
When you learn from The Law of attraction, you can craft and create the life you want!

