Stimulation
You get her number, set up the date, take her out, and get her to come back to your place for "a few drinks". You are sitting on the couch kissing and fooling around with her, but after a while she says "It's getting kind of late... I've better get going". Being the gentleman that you are, you respect her wishes and show her out, even though you are pissed beyond belief... and stuck with a severe case of blue-balls.
The reason why this happens to many men is because of a lack of the proper stimulation. If you want to turn "It's getting kind of late... blah blah blah" into "One more time before I leave for work" you must stimulate her mind and body, starting with her mind first. Men are most aroused by what we see, for example... a nice ass. Women are most aroused by what they hear, so one of the best techniques any player can use in these critical situations is "talking dirty". Telling a woman what you are going to do to her before you do it will make her much more aroused than actually performing the act, which is the exact opposite with men... we want to see and feel it, not hear it.
Women love foreplay, and the more that you tease her the less chance you have of her leaving or stopping your progress... as long as your teasing is performed properly. Always take things slow and never make any sudden movements, the idea is to move your hands and body slow and smooth while maintaining fluid motion; don't do one thing for too long because this will give her time to think, and I can guarantee some of the first things that will pop into her head are "I've only known this guy for..." and "What will my friend's think", which are obviously not in your best interest. The trick is to keep things happening faster than her mind can keep up, because if her mind is given even a few moments without the need to concentrate on what she is doing, she will begin to think about the current situation and may have second thoughts.
Don't forget to keep talking, and always keep the conversation sexual. If you let the topic of discussion drift to something non sex-related then you are screwed, and not the way you were hoping. Whisper your comments into her ear and kiss her ear while your at it, the ear is one of the best spots to kiss a woman to get her in the mood and keep her that way. If you are kissing her body, always work your way back to her mouth every-so-often, and each time make your kissing more intense.
Forget about her tits. Feel them for a few seconds, kiss them for a few seconds, and quickly move down below. Any stimulation you can provide to her breasts will not be sufficient to get her ready for sex, so they should only be given a small amount of attention. You can even forget about them all together, and if she has small breasts she will most likely be happy that you did.
Before ANYTHING happens (before you sit down) you should always remove any rings/watches/bracelets that you have on so you can slip your hand down into her pants quickly without anything getting "hooked". Forget about her belt and unbuttoning her pants, you can get your hand down there without doing any of that... trust me. If you waste time attempting to undo that stuff she may stop you by grabbing your hand and shaking her head no. You can do all of that later because once she is aroused enough none of it will matter anymore.
Once you've got your hand down her pants it's a done deal (assuming that you know what & where a clitoris is).
P.S. Be safe and wear condoms! Get some for free at FreeCondoms.com
This article was written by the founder of Becomeaplayer.com known only as The Player. For more articles and free tips on picking up women check out the web site.
Latest News
 ABC News | Balfour jealous Hudson sis was dating United Press International - 4 (UPI) -- William Balfour, the man charged with killing three members of Jennifer Hudson's family, was jealous his estranged wife was dating, ... Video: Prosecutor: Jealousy Drove Hudson Family Killer Lawyers: Hudson in-law angered by wife's dating Hudson Murder Suspect Angry Over Wife's Dating |
 Contactmusic.com | Westwick and Szohr Dating? San Francisco Chronicle, USA - There's a new couple on the set of "Gossip Girl" -- Ed Westwick and Jessica Szohr are reportedly dating. Westwick was rumored to be involved with actress ... Gossip Girl stars smootch at airport New couple on the Gossip Girl set? |
Amanda Bynes & Hills Player Doug Reinhardt Dating E! Online - But it seems we had her all wrong, because she is apparently dating the dude who was too boring for even Lauren Conrad: Doug Reinhardt. ... |
 LAist | Kirsten Dunst dating filmmaker Jacob Soboroff Oneindia, India - Washington (ANI): Hollywood actress Kirsten Dunst has bid her single status goodbye, for she's dating filmmaker Jacob Soboroff, according to reports. ... When a Hot Celebrity Dates a Local Blogger... Kirsten Dunst snags activist/director Jacob Soboroff? DUNST FINDS LOVE AGAIN |
meetMoi Launches Real-Time Location Updates for Revolutionary ... PR Web (press release), WA - The next generation of mobile dating is now available on Blackberry, Windows, Symbian and Android phones. meetMoi allows users to share location 24 hours a ... Xtify Launches Platform to Revolutionize Location Based Services ... |
Video: Mary Kay Joins With Amanda Bynes to Help End Teen Dating ... SYS-CON Media, NJ - ... Mary Kay Inc. has teamed up with Amanda Bynes and non-profit partner Break the Cycle to raise awareness and end teen dating violence Amanda Bynes ... |
 The Age | 9 year old writes dating book College News, IL - A Today interview revealed what inspired the tiny dating guru to write his book. “I saw boys around the playground having trouble getting girls — just not ... US schoolboy publishes guide to dating 9-Year-Old's Dating Advice Book Nine-year-old's dating guide wows singles |
Share Your Online Dating Experiences and Singles Social Behaviour ... 24-7PressRelease.com (press release) - Your chance to participate in research based on the sexual behaviour and social patterns for singles who use online dating sites. ... |
Teenage Relationships and Dating Jackson Sun, TN - As if peer pressure and puberty weren’t sometimes confusing enough, this is also the time most teenagers start dating. School dances, parties and football ... |
 PR Web (press release) | Coolio Finds Match Using Online Dating site BlackPeopleMeet.com PR Web (press release), WA - Hollywood, California (PRWEB) December 4, 2008 - Who would have thought that a Grammy award winning, multi-platinum rapper would use an online dating site ... |
Resources
-
GuyGetsGirl.com - Pickup, Dating And Seduction Guide
Pickup, Dating and Seduction Guide. We Pay You upto $47 per sale!
-
How To Become An Alpha Male.
Dating & seduction success guide for men.
-
The Art Of Approaching Women.
Dating & Seduction eBook For Men - High Conversions, Earn $25 or $44 Per Sale!
-
Dating RUSSIAN WOMEN: New e-book on Dating Russian women by Elena Petrova
NEW! Dating Russian women made easy -- What Russian women want, or How to find and marry a girl like me - e-book by Elena Petrova of Russian Brides Cyber Guide.
-
Instant Dating Success - Dating tips, secrets to attracting and meeting women
Instant Dating Success: Dating tips, secrets to attracting, seducing and meeting the kinds of women you
-
Creative Date Ideas
The ultimate source of hundreds of the best creative Dating ideas.
-
"Men's online Dating guide to meet woman. Internet Dating guide for advice and tips."
Meeting women online Dating guide. Men
-
Dating Advice for Men - How to Approach Women, Attract Women, and Meet Girls
How to Approach Women, Talk to Women and Attract Women. Dating Advice for Men and How to Meet Girls. Learn How to Read Body Language, Dating Tips, How to Get a Girlfriend.
-
ANTI-SCAM GUIDE for men seeking a Russian wife
Check it BEFORE to start your search for a Russian wife! There are lots of Dating scams in the mail order brides industry, and not all Russian women seeking marriage are what they say they are...
-
Attract Women Now with Advanced Seduction Dating Manual
The Best Selling Book. Also articles, interviews, book reviews, a photo gallery of sexy women, and more!